Comments for A Womans Blog http://www.awomansblog.com This isn't the end of the story Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:52:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 Comment on Twenty Four Days by Tawnya Jonsek http://www.awomansblog.com/2011/10/twenty-four-days/comment-page-1/#comment-5259 Tawnya Jonsek Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:52:12 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=1228#comment-5259 Wow, Pat. I didn't see you had commented. For some reason, I don't always get all the notices. I'm going to check my gmail & blog settings to make sure it's what I mean for it to be. Hope all is well. I think of you as a special friend - we seemed to go through it parallel - it was nice, even if we lived far apart, to know someone out there understood. Wow, Pat. I didn’t see you had commented. For some reason, I don’t always get all the notices. I’m going to check my gmail & blog settings to make sure it’s what I mean for it to be.

Hope all is well. I think of you as a special friend – we seemed to go through it parallel – it was nice, even if we lived far apart, to know someone out there understood.

]]> Comment on Twenty Four Days by Tawnya Jonsek http://www.awomansblog.com/2011/10/twenty-four-days/comment-page-1/#comment-5258 Tawnya Jonsek Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:50:33 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=1228#comment-5258 Thanks, Joe. Yes - controlling behavior isn't restricted to the male gender. For some reason (I have my theories), I've picked men that had those tendencies. So, I'm giving myself some time to figure that out, enjoy my own company and eventually be open to a man who would love me for me and not some idea of how he think I should be. Thanks, for stopping by! Thanks, Joe. Yes – controlling behavior isn’t restricted to the male gender. For some reason (I have my theories), I’ve picked men that had those tendencies. So, I’m giving myself some time to figure that out, enjoy my own company and eventually be open to a man who would love me for me and not some idea of how he think I should be.

Thanks, for stopping by!

]]> Comment on Twenty Four Days by Joe Schmitt http://www.awomansblog.com/2011/10/twenty-four-days/comment-page-1/#comment-5257 Joe Schmitt Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:44:57 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=1228#comment-5257 That's tough. Sounds like Slaves Of New York, the stories about couples in rent controlled apartments who couldn't afford to move, but with kids. I was struck by your comments about not dating because you don't want men controlling your life. That selfish behavior isn't all men for sure, and that need to control other people is hard to take no matter what sex the person is. I hope you find someone you can share with, and not be controlled by. That’s tough. Sounds like Slaves Of New York, the stories about couples in rent controlled apartments who couldn’t afford to move, but with kids.

I was struck by your comments about not dating because you don’t want men controlling your life. That selfish behavior isn’t all men for sure, and that need to control other people is hard to take no matter what sex the person is. I hope you find someone you can share with, and not be controlled by.

]]> Comment on Twenty Four Days by Pat Williams http://www.awomansblog.com/2011/10/twenty-four-days/comment-page-1/#comment-5250 Pat Williams Tue, 01 Nov 2011 15:02:33 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=1228#comment-5250 ha! I just clicked through and saw I not only read the previous post but left a comment. Perhaps I blocked that time from my memory. ;-) ha! I just clicked through and saw I not only read the previous post but left a comment. Perhaps I blocked that time from my memory. ;-)

]]> Comment on Twenty Four Days by Pat Williams http://www.awomansblog.com/2011/10/twenty-four-days/comment-page-1/#comment-5249 Pat Williams Tue, 01 Nov 2011 14:58:21 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=1228#comment-5249 Somehow I missed that post the first time around. You and I have so many similarities... even the dirty underwear (without the cat sculpture). Yes, I too lived with my ex for 2 years after filing for divorce, and spent most of it holed up in my room as well. I told myself the same positive things, and hated it just as much. I was relieved last week when he chose to move in with his girlfriend instead of working out an agreement to move back in here. The situation is still incredibly difficult financially, but everything else is wonderful, so I've accepted the financial struggle for now, because it's still more peaceful than the emotional struggles before. Life is good now. Somehow I missed that post the first time around. You and I have so many similarities… even the dirty underwear (without the cat sculpture). Yes, I too lived with my ex for 2 years after filing for divorce, and spent most of it holed up in my room as well. I told myself the same positive things, and hated it just as much. I was relieved last week when he chose to move in with his girlfriend instead of working out an agreement to move back in here. The situation is still incredibly difficult financially, but everything else is wonderful, so I’ve accepted the financial struggle for now, because it’s still more peaceful than the emotional struggles before. Life is good now.

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