Comments on: Looking Forward http://www.awomansblog.com/2010/07/looking-forward/ This isn't the end of the story Thu, 17 Nov 2011 16:52:12 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Tawnya Jonsek http://www.awomansblog.com/2010/07/looking-forward/comment-page-1/#comment-4812 Tawnya Jonsek Tue, 17 Aug 2010 02:38:16 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=791#comment-4812 I agree, Lioness!~ I don't set a time frame on what my relationship status should be, but I knew I needed time away from trying to be with somebody. I knew based on standard "wisdom" & my own experience from a previous divorce that one year was a good, solid time period for making sure I could heal myself. I didn't have the goal of having a relationship in a year - only in making sure I dedicated at least one year to healing & getting to fully know & love myself for one year without the drama & complications of trying to be in a relationship with someone else. What happened after the year was something I didn't plan or try to anticipate. I agree, Lioness!~ I don’t set a time frame on what my relationship status should be, but I knew I needed time away from trying to be with somebody. I knew based on standard “wisdom” & my own experience from a previous divorce that one year was a good, solid time period for making sure I could heal myself.

I didn’t have the goal of having a relationship in a year – only in making sure I dedicated at least one year to healing & getting to fully know & love myself for one year without the drama & complications of trying to be in a relationship with someone else.

What happened after the year was something I didn’t plan or try to anticipate.

]]> By: Lioness http://www.awomansblog.com/2010/07/looking-forward/comment-page-1/#comment-4795 Lioness Mon, 19 Jul 2010 22:29:45 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=791#comment-4795 setting a time frame on your relationship status is not healthy. you either end up disappointed for not fulfilling your goals that year or you will end up settling for something you know deep down is not right for you, just for the sake of telling yourself that you were successful in reaching your goal. setting a time frame on your relationship status is not healthy. you either end up disappointed for not fulfilling your goals that year or you will end up settling for something you know deep down is not right for you, just for the sake of telling yourself that you were successful in reaching your goal.

]]> By: Tawnya Jonsek http://www.awomansblog.com/2010/07/looking-forward/comment-page-1/#comment-4789 Tawnya Jonsek Fri, 16 Jul 2010 01:30:07 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=791#comment-4789 Thank you Paul! I appreciate the comment and feel humbled by the praise. It is true our intentions can't know who we are to become - letting go, even of what was so true for us in the past, can be the most liberating freedom there is. Thank you Paul! I appreciate the comment and feel humbled by the praise. It is true our intentions can’t know who we are to become – letting go, even of what was so true for us in the past, can be the most liberating freedom there is.

]]> By: Paul Wilder http://www.awomansblog.com/2010/07/looking-forward/comment-page-1/#comment-4784 Paul Wilder Thu, 15 Jul 2010 03:28:19 +0000 http://www.awomansblog.com/?p=791#comment-4784 This often lyrical post reveals that even our intentions cannot know nor contain who we are to become when we enter into and live in service of a love for truth in the moment. I rejoice in your unbound soul, in your humble recognition that even our intentions are meant to be outgrown and let go along the way to freedom. The glow of your light from here is Magnificent! This often lyrical post reveals that even our intentions cannot know nor contain who we are to become when we enter into and live in service of a love for truth in the moment. I rejoice in your unbound soul, in your humble recognition that even our intentions are meant to be outgrown and let go along the way to freedom. The glow of your light from here is Magnificent!

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