Just to be Clear
My ex thinks the time I have given him alone with the children (I’ve been generous in the evenings) means the children and I don’t have a good relationship. JUST TO BE CLEAR – I give him that time alone as a courtesy because I spend ALL DAY LONG with them without him around and I wanted him to have a chance to be with them without the tension of THE TWO OF US being in the same room together. AND because Olaf has, in the past, said and done very hurtful things TO ME AND TO LUKE I try to avoid this by spending AS LITTLE TIME AS POSSIBLE in his presence.
If he has told you this in conversations – please note it is because he doesn’t know what I do during the day with the children. He is greatly mistaken if he thinks I have no bond with the children, as he stated this evening in my conversation with him. I am their MOM and I’m a DAMN GOOD mom at that.
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Aloha,
I remember those days of trusting my son’s dad alone with my son. I had a hard time to resist to know what is going on when he’s there. my son’s dad had a completely whole new family he moved into(none of the other kids were his) . but i had to breathe and let go. I did have a lot of anger that did take a while to have the will to forgive..i DO hear you because the mom is always the one that looks bad when she is trying to move on with life the best you can , and raising kids , and being civil to the ex, as best as possible.
Be strong in yourself and your body, . thoughts of encouragement for you as you go through this situation.
mahalo
jalove (from Twitteri was a single mom when my son was 9. i was with the dad for 10 yrs, my baby will be 20 in 2 weeks) I KNOW!
Aloha!
Thanks so much… It’s good to see you stop by! It’s good to know I’m not alone. Other women, and men, have gone through these things.
It is hard being the mom. But – my kids are great and worth the pain I go through for them.